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Essays for the quieter rooms of the relationship.
Writing on intimacy, desire, postpartum identity, shame, and the particular strain of long-term love. Not productivity listicles. Not hot takes. Real thinking, at real length.
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Sex & Desire
Desire discrepancy isn't a dealbreaker. It's the most common sex issue in long relationships.
Wanting different amounts of sex than your partner is the rule, not the exception. Here's what the research says — and what therapy actually does about it.
7 min read
Postpartum
Postpartum intimacy is its own thing. Stop comparing it to before.
The relationship after the baby is a different relationship — not a smaller version of the old one. Here's what the work looks like when you stop pretending otherwise.
6 min read
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